His whole little life was for me! My heart is broken I can’t stop crying just seeing is body completely destroyed my beautiful Tom my confident, my best friend I will miss you greatly your sister Chu misses you so much. goodbye for now..i know she will be with me together with her "brothers and sisters" in heaven when my journey in this earth ends.. i love you athena. Her last day was cold and wet she never came back. I'm afraid the future weeks are going to be incredibly difficult, like it has been for you. They couldn't tell me why it was happening but my fear was that she had some form of oral cancer. Is it because of so many losses in such a short time. He took naps with me. My dog that my family had for ten years died last week. I've cried every day since Dec 19. She had the sweetest look in her eyes and the purest soul. write to me anytime. I'm absolutely distraught and many people keep saying he might just be in a shed or something but I can't explain it, I just know he's not, I can feel it. They are family and losing one is heartbreaking. He showed liveliness until the day he died. He went missing 3 days ago and usually comes back after being gone for about 2 hours. First, allow me to say I am so sorry about the death of your dear cat. I can't stop crying. We never truly "get over" our loss, but we can certainly move through it. I have experienced the loss several times and know how hard it is to stop crying or to go on with a normal life. I have no energy and all I want to do is cry and lie down. It has been a while since you posted your comment, I hope you've healed as much as possible. I still feel like I've been too sad for too long and I don't know how to stop. Again, this is the body's way of working towards maintaining emotional homeostasis. Â, Reintegration, Reclamation, Reconciliation, After a loss, we are commonly left feeling broken, and part of the grief process is to fit the pieces back together again. She slept everywhere in the house and scratched every piece of wood she could find. This is because our bodies are processing through the shock of loss and working hard to reduce the overwhelming emotional experience we are going through. Â, Allow Yourself to Cry, Without JudgmentÂ, It can be easy to think, I must be going crazy for crying so much. Right before he died he was crying with me like a baby. And I truly believe that our pets felt our love. This cat was everything to me- she loved me 100% of the time unconditionally. But, the iguana that died was my … She was spunky, territorial and so, so loving and sweet to me. The vet didn't catch what was wrong with him... he had a kidney stone and he needed surgery to remove it. I have a 4 month old puppy named Luna, my mum has a 5 year old cat called Lucy, and we had a 17 year old cat named Fluff. The vet came to my home and we lovingly let him go while he was on on my bed. I know it will get easier everyday but right now its just so hard to let her go. I really don't know how to deal with his passing. I watched as he became limp as I pet him. The manager understood and let me go in the back of the store[not in the pet play area] with the little kitty and talk and cry a while. Thank you for listening. When I saw her in those early days as she emerged from her exile, I saw in her an elderly tall and thin lady, unmarried, in a tweed suit, carrying a battered suitcase, with impeccable manners and a desparate need for a place to stay and room with board. We had to let him go on Jan 10, 2018. I lost my dog 11 weeks ago and still cry.